Thursday, June 17, 2010

Friends???

ok s last year we were bestttttt friends. she has a really bad attitude, esp. on the bball court. it gets o my nerves. shes mean to everyone around her and is mad at the world. everyone has tried talking to her but she jus wont listen.lately ive kinda broke away from her litttle group. she is secretly ad at me and im secretly mad at her. i am so mad at her i could kill her. she asks e dumb questions and she is so mean. my best friend hayley..... hahaha we have been friends 4ever and until hannah came to my school now hayley has been acting exactly like her. i can barely handle 1 hannah i cant handle 2. hannah has been writing ily hayley and things like that trying to make me jealous... its working. i really dont want to be friends with hannah and hayley. how can i tell them that??



Friends???

first of all why would you even be friends with anyone of themm



now.. try to play fire with fire, get a new friend and like more friends and make them jealous (make sure you don't really use those peaple.. or it would make matters worse[trust me])



or you could always change and be one of them



Friends???

i don't like people who are mean or not them selfs so sorry fot were not friend anymore



Friends???

you and hayley have been friends for ever just like u said. call her when u knkoe shes alone and talkt to her. or if u feel more comfortable when you talk to her face to face, then get her alone and ask talk to her. if shes a true friend shell listen



Friends???

What



Friends???

Lol, screw your friend... in a matter of fact you technically have no friends in this world just no what people are about and expect what is coming



Friends???

Well that's a hard issue, but you should kind of break away and spend more time with other people.



Ex: "Let's go to the movies today," say Hayley.



You say, "Opps, sorry I'm to ______ with ______."



Friends???

thats a tough situation that ur in but if i were you i'd just tell them [in a note] that u want them to meet you at a "Spot" and then just unleash your feelings there. make it look as if it were going to be just u and hanna and just u and haley but when u meet up its all three of you. then just tell them like it is! seriously, if u dont wanna be their friend then theres nothing to lose when u tell them ur feelings :]



is that enough help?



Friends???

by saying..." i can't handle you too together adn i dont want to be friends with both of you" YOUR IN MIDDLE SCHOOL ARENT YA? yeah, it sounds it...forget them and find new friends it sounds like a headache...



Friends???

talk to her and try to work things out



Friends???

tell hayley



Friends???

tell hayley to get real. she's being a jerk, and she's following in the footsteps of a bigger jerk. totally disregard the fact that she'll tell hannah. in fact, you probably want hannah to hear. hannah needs a reality check. she needs to realize that nobody likes the negative vibes she spouts. and if you guys band together, i mean really get together, and show hannah that popularity and jerkiness do not belong together, like if you all just ditch and ignore her, she will realize that she'd rather have friends, than spend her time losing them. and if hayley sees hannah lose all of you, she may realize the same thing.



but i suggest you try getting to the very core of hannah's problem. there's something wrong with that girl, and before you persecute her, try figuring her out first.



as for hayley, i know you miss her, but it sounds like to me that she's an identity thief of the worst kind. she impersonates people she finds admirable, even the not to great ones. i think you'd do best to find someone like the old hayley.



it's hard to hear these things, but someone's gotta say it to you.



Friends???

its hard to brake a freindship more than any other realationship. but maybe you could try and be the nice one. i know its easier to say than do. give it a try. if that dont work just try laughing when she laughs or anwser her dumb questions like you mean it. if she is doing it to get you mad then she might realize that you dont care and youre not mean like her.



Friends???

excuses, excuses, excuses! that's how to solve this problem(well, sorta) start hanging out with other people more and more each day, very slowly and gradually. And if Hayley of Hannah ask why you've been avoiding them just say something along the lines of "Well, they asked me to_____(sit with them at lunch, go to their house) and its not like i could just say no out flat." i'm not sure if my suggestion will work for you but hopefully i helped.



Friends???

you just have to be straight up with them i had the same issue once but that was some time ago but do know what i did? i didn't tell them what i was mad at or why i wasn't talking to her but for me that was the best way to handle it. i just drop everything with them talking,walking to class with them, sitting from right across from them to the whole other side of the table so that i couldn't engage conversation with them. and that's what i did and after that i found some way better nicer and less annoying friends ..... and just a word to advice after u break it off with them find different friends more like guy friends.



hope it works out like it did for me (that's a good thing) and hope my advice helps good luck!



Friends???

Grow up.



Friends???

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